How to Get What You Want in Life:

A Fast Three Step Process For Having The Life You Want Now!

Let me just start by saying…Energy is my business. It’s my zone of genius. And, in my opinion, energetic mastery is the MOST important capacity to develop yourself in to have the bright, shiny, beautiful life you want.

I have been prepping for my next 3-day event – Create, Manifest Actualize the Shit out of 2020, and as part of my prep I’ve been tuned into the energy of the people who want to be there. Those who:

have said YES and registered – WAY TO CHOOSE YOU!

have said YES and still aren’t registered – Get your butt in gear folks!

haven’t said yes yet, but want to – Again, get after it. The action moves things forward.

don’t know about the event, but would be a yes if they did – Do you know any of those people? Send them this link!

I’ve been tapping into the collective energy to see what attendees want to get out of the program, what they want to change in their lives, where they might be stuck, and I’ve begun activating the healing energies that are needed so they are SUPER FUCKING POTENT when our people arrive. 

I am 100% INVESTED IN the people I work with getting what they want, healing their past up-leveling their experience of life and mastering their energy. As I tapped into the energy, I was overwhelmed by the pain, frustration and disappointment people are dealing with. And if there is one thing I know it’s that THERE IS ANOTHER WAY! 

Change is inevitable. Suffering is optional. So here it is…My simple 3-step process for having the life you want now!

Step 1: Get clear on what you REALLY want?

Do you want this year to be different? Do you want this year to be the one where that thing, you know that thing you’ve been wanting or complaining about and putting up with forever, FINALLY CHANGES

Do you feel like you just can’t take it anymore? That something or everything has to change because you JUST CAN’T GO ON LIKE THIS? If you want things to go your way, you need to be clear on what YOUR WAY looks like. 

You gotta get super freaking clear on what it is you desire, and if you want to go the extra mile you’ll get clear on what it will feel like when you get it!

Now let me fill you in on the ONE thing that will get you what you want whether it’s a new job, more money, a great relationship, an amicable end to your current relationship, a body you love or a WHOLE DAMN LIFE OVER! The one thing that will change everything! This one thing has the power to change it all because you have the power to change it all! 

And it is…Being UNREASONABLE! To make MAJOR changes. To grow in a big kind of way. To take a quantum leap forward you have to get unreasonable in your thinking, your commitment, and your actions! 

You have to be more interested in your vision and your future than in justifying why you’ve gotten to where you are, or explaining why you can’t really have what you want because of your past.

Step 2: Ask yourself, “Have I been BEING REASONABLE?”

Look at your life and be honest with yourself… Have you been being reasonable?

Reasonable as defined by the Oxford dictionary is:

(of a person) having sound judgment; fair and sensible.

as much as is appropriate or fair; moderate.

I’d like you to ask yourself a question and answer it honestly. Is your current situation, the life you really want? Is it the life you used to dream about when you were a kid? Is it the life you wake up excited to live?

Or is this life best described as…reasonable?

Tell the truth… It’s a bit REASONABLE, isn’t it? What kind of life do you really want?

I mean, if you had it all your way? Would you like it described as… Unprecedented? Magical? Yummy beyond your wildest imagination? Or maybe just… UN-reasonable

You can be COMMITTED. Make SENSIBLE DECISIONS and WANT MORE. But, taking actions that are of sound judgment and make sense will probably only land you EXACTLY where you are… which if you are reading this means you’re being reasonable.

And… Something inside of you is ready for, or dare I say has called in, this exact message because YOU STILL WANT MORE!

There are parts of your life that you are DONE putting up with. And you know to get where you want to go, to have the life that you want, to live your life your way – it’s going to take more. It’s going to require you to be UNREASONABLE

And that’s what I want for you! I want you to be UNREASONABLE! I want you to look at yourself, your life and what you want to create and then… I want you to take an unreasonable action that makes you feel uncomfortable in the best of ways because you know it’s moving you toward what you really, really want. It might even make your butt pucker a little!

I know that when you are unreasonable with yourself.. You produce UNREASONABLE change and that change, changes everything! So here it is…


What do I mean by be unreasonable? Let me tell you.

Presence your answer to Step 1. Take a moment of silence to center yourself, get into your body, call in your guides and remember that you are psychic, intuitive and aware AF.

Ask the question, “Would being with Tamara for 3 days at Create, Manifest Actualize the Sh*t out of 2020 or joining her in the 12-month Energetic Self Mastery Program help me create the life I want?

Now here’s the unreasonable part, if the answer was YES, even if it doesn’t make any sense, even if you are scared, take the next action and…


YEAH! IT’S FUCKING UNREASONABLE, I know! I told you it would be and when you really tune in, I know you know that being unreasonable is what’s required now. When you want big changes the next most aligned step is usually the unreasonable, uncomfortable step that you’ve been avoiding or didn’t want to acknowledge existed. So…JUST DO IT!


And if you are nervous, that’s okay… My team is kind, loving and here for you. They are trained in Energetic Mastery and are fully capable of guiding you to tap into your intuition and supporting you in taking the leap that could put you on the path to EVERYTHING YOU want. And, because you might need a little extra nudge, I’m going to invite you one more time…


I love you. You can do this. It’s not hard, just click the link, email, and schedule a call today. We promise to leave you better than you found us. And…Remember energy is thoughts, feelings, and actions. If you want to change your life, you have to change your energy. It’s not personal. It’s not optional. It just is. MIC DROP!


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About Tamara Ross

Tamara Ross is the founder and CEO of My Life My Design. She is a highly sought after Energetics Expert and the creator of the Energetic Self Mastery Program. She not only trains individuals and entrepreneurs to create MORE for themselves and their lives, but also trains individuals to impact others with a certified Energetic Coaching Program.

Tamara’s teachings in energy guides individuals to create lives filled with love, joy, success and balance all while increasing their profits and money flows. She trains people in removing the barriers to their success so they can manifest ANYTHING they desire.

Tamara's expertise has allowed for her to create a house in the mountains and a vacation house on the beach, grow a multiple 6- figure company with a 70% profitability margin, and live a life with no compromises all while positively impacting thousands of individuals world wide.

Tamara Ross

Founder and CEO of My Life My Design

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