How to Manifest Your Dreams and Have it All!

How to Manifest Your Dreams and Have it All!

Welcome to some Q+A!

I've been noticing that I keep getting some of the same questions from my audience, friends, clients, and family, so I thought, why not share my answers with you here in hopes that you will be able to take this knowledge and apply it to your own life!

If you have questions you'd like answered, you can simply DM me or tag me on any of my social networks, and I'll add it to the queue for the upcoming post.


Q: What do you think are the two biggest mistakes people make in manifesting their dreams?

A: The two biggest mistakes people make in manifesting the life of and their dreams are; first, they're energetically misaligned. People want to manifest and create the life of their dreams but most haven't aligned energetically to what they want. Energetic alignment occurs when your thoughts, feelings, and actions are all congruent. Without the FULL alignment of these three things, what a person truly desires can not manifest.

The second issue I see is that most people interpret discomfort as misalignment, which is a BIG mistake. 

Discomfort is actually pointing you on the path of what there is to master next. Think about it this way. I do lots of videos for my company, and I'm on camera a lot. When I first started doing video work, my level of discomfort was through the roof. It didn't mean that being on camera was misaligned for me; it was just that I hadn't built that muscle yet.

Now, after 7 years of practice, when I’m in front of a camera, recording a video or on stage, I’m completely at ease and comfortable. So you want to be able to distinguish the difference between misalignment and discomfort which takes lots of practice using your intuition. (This is a whole other topic I’ll dive into later 🙂 )

Q: In general, why do people feel like that no matter how hard they work, they can never have it all?

I would say people feel like this because they buy into and believe in the lie of scarcity and scarcity of time.

If we actually had it ALL OUR WAY and EVERYTHING we wanted, we fundamentally think it'd take more of our time to get it, and that we’d have to eliminate something else we already have or want.

Enter in the paradigm of EITHER/OR!  

A perfect example of this is the modern-day woman.  I see lots of women bump up against this when they want to create something out in the world or become an entrepreneur, and they also want to be a mom.  They think they can have one or the other, but if they chose both, they’d run themselves ragged. This is one paradigm that hits close to home…One that I’m busting through every day and committed to changing for women everywhere.  If you haven’t heard, I run a multiple 6-figure company that will 6 times itself in 2020, I’ve retired my husband, I work about 20 hours a week and I spend most of my time with my family! 

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About Tamara Ross

Tamara Ross is the founder and CEO of My Life My Design. She is a highly sought after Energetics Expert and the creator of the Energetic Self Mastery Program. She not only trains individuals and entrepreneurs to create MORE for themselves and their lives, but also trains individuals to impact others with a certified Energetic Coaching Program.

Tamara’s teachings in energy guides individuals to create lives filled with love, joy, success and balance all while increasing their profits and money flows. She trains people in removing the barriers to their success so they can manifest ANYTHING they desire.

Tamara's expertise has allowed for her to create a house in the mountains and a vacation house on the beach, grow a multiple 6- figure company with a 70% profitability margin, and live a life with no compromises all while positively impacting thousands of individuals world wide.

Tamara Ross

Founder and CEO of My Life My Design