How to Manifest Your Dreams and Have it All

Welcome to some Q+A!

I’ve been noticing that I keep getting some of the same questions from my audience, friends, clients, and family, so I thought, why not share my answers with you here in hopes that you will be able to take this knowledge and apply it to your own life!

If you have questions you’d like answered, you can simply DM me or tag me on any of my social networks, and I’ll add it to the queue for the upcoming post. 

Enjoy! 

Q: What do you think are the two biggest mistakes people make in manifesting their dreams?

A: The two biggest mistakes people make in manifesting the life of and their dreams are; first, they’re energetically misaligned. People want to manifest and create the life of their dreams but most haven’t aligned energetically to what they want. Energetic alignment occurs when your thoughts, feelings, and actions are all congruent. Without the FULL alignment of these three things, what a person truly desires can not manifest. 

The second issue I see is that most people interpret discomfort as misalignment, which is a BIG mistake. 

Discomfort is actually pointing you on the path of what there is to master next. Think about it this way. I do lots of videos for my company, and I’m on camera a lot. When I first started doing video work, my level of discomfort was through the roof. It didn’t mean that being on camera was misaligned for me; it was just that I hadn’t built that muscle yet.

Now, after 7 years of practice, when I’m in front of a camera, recording a video or on stage, I’m completely at ease and comfortable. So you want to be able to distinguish the difference between misalignment and discomfort which takes lots of practice using your intuition. (This is a whole other topic I’ll dive into later 🙂 

Q: In general, why do people feel like that no matter how hard they work, they can never have it all?

I would say people feel like this because they buy into and believe in the lie of scarcity and scarcity of time. 

If we actually had it ALL OUR WAY and EVERYTHING we wanted, we fundamentally think it’d take more of our time to get it, and that we’d have to eliminate something else we already have or want. 

Enter in the paradigm of EITHER/OR!  

A perfect example of this is the modern-day woman.  I see lots of women bump up against this when they want to create something out in the world or become an entrepreneur, and they also want to be a mom.  They think they can have one or the other, but if they chose both, they’d run themselves ragged. This is one paradigm that hits close to home…One that I’m busting through every day and committed to changing for women everywhere.  If you haven’t heard, I run a multiple 6-figure company that will 6 times itself in 2020, I’ve retired my husband, I work about 20 hours a week and I spend most of my time with my family! 

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About the Author

Hi! I'm Tamara Ross, Founder of My Life My Design. I work about 20 HOURS a week. I'm the CEO of a multiple 6-figure company, and most of my time is spent playing and traveling with my daughter and husband. If this is something that appeals to you... you can have it, too! IT IS POSSIBLE AND I WANT IT FOR YOU!

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